Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Will he come back, does he really mean he does not love me anymore?
I caught my husband (this is the 4th time) watching local and browsing on escort services from his work computer( he used to connect remotly from our home desktop). That day we were just coming back from a nice dinner on his bthday celebration. I went crazy and said too many hurtful things. When I asked him why he did it, he stayed quiet or said "I dont know I dont know". It got me more upset that I asked him to leave the house because I did not want him to stay there anymore. He did and since that day (Sep 08) he slept on his car for like about a month, he barely came to see our 2yr old baby and when i called him he only said he wanted everything to be over and he wanted to be single again, that he did not miss a thing about us or his wife. He was the happiest man ever because he did not have to listen to my annoying voice. We have been married for 6 yrs and we have had typical fights but we were even looking for a second baby and now he only says he always was unhappy and that he does not love me anymore. He does not want to try marriage counseling unless to define closure on the relationship. It has been 4 months and he wants to get divorce. We have had ual relations every other time he stopped to visit my daughter or he stayed because she was sick. I dont know if anybody has gone through similar situation. It is hard to understand how someone always reaffirmed his love and said you were the best wife, mother and friend ever. But now he just wants to wipe out everything and move on. If our relationship would have been a catastrophe over the years, yes I could be ready to move on too. But how can you? Do you think he is just going through a phase or he will come back to me eventhough he says he wont miss a thing from us? He has no friends neither talks to anybody. He has devoted all his time to work harder and late hours. After sleeping in a car for about a month he rented a room 1 mile away from our home. Communication is completely broken everytime I ask him to reconsider he would only say I have to accept his decision and move on. What can I do? I do love my husband and I wish we could learn and work our problems out. He hurts me saying I annoying him all this years and he feels nervous and irritated around me, that is why he wants to avoid me
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